The
Swan Letter
Spring
2009
Welcome
to The Swan Letter,
a quarterly message from
Terri Daniel and Danny Mandell, authors of
A
Swan in Heaven:
Conversations Between Two Worlds
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Terri's
Introduction :
I would like to begin this newsletter by thanking all of you who've shown
such love and support for A Swan
in Heaven and for the work I'm doing with the help of Danny and
my guides. It brings me to tears when I read your letters, and it's difficult
to express how much gratitude I have for all of you.
As many of you know, nothing comes into our awareness by accident. The right
person, the right book, the right experience, are all perfectly orchestrated
to provide opportunities for the soul's growth. I often talk in my workshops
about how there is no Divine judgment, only Divine guidance. The energy that
is "God" doesn't have an opinion about what we do, and does not
judge us. Instead, it fuels and energizes us, serving as a connective fiber
that joins all of creation in one perfectly aligned movement toward the completion
of plans and agreements. The ultimate destination is a place where our earth
aspect (ego/personality) and our Divine aspect (soul/higher self) work together
in harmony. The experiences we create on earth are designed to move us to
this place, and sometimes the most effective experiences are the most painful.
Because I do so much work with the bereaved, I often ask Danny to give me
the right words to help people who are in terrible pain about the loss of
a loved one. As I recently wrote on my new website www.AfterlifeAwareness.com:
"I help the bereaved understand that every one of us is connected
and no death happens in a vacuum. We are all part of soul families that make
pre-birth agreements to act out certain plans, and sometimes a tragic death
is part of that plan. When you look at it with a wider view, when you see
it as a part of the whole -- a catalyst to increase awareness for an entire
soul group -- the victim aspect falls into the background, and a greater understanding
of that death can be realized."
This is a difficult concept for someone in the midst of unbearable grief,
so I asked Danny to elaborate...
- DANNY SPEAKS -
Imagine that
a mother is crying about her young daughter (we will call the daughter Jane)
who has just left the physical realm. "She was so young, a compassionate,
beautiful soul, pure, clean and perfect," the mother says. "She
loved unconditionally. She was completely innocent. Why did she have to die?"
There is a reason, though to understand it requires an opening of
the mind and the senses to an elevated view of our purpose on earth. Jane's
life, her earth personality, her soul, her death, everything she is and everything
she does, is not separate from the rest of us. She is part of an enormous
living organism called "Us." This is what the great teachers mean
when they speak of Oneness. No one of Us is separate from any other
of Us. When a piece of Us -- Jane -- moves into another dimension, it is never
a personal affront against one of Us, nor is it a "loss" in a metaphysical
sense, because Jane's life and death -- her soul's movement through this system
-- is part of a much bigger picture affects all of Us. This can easily be
seen and understood on the soul level, but is difficult to grasp at the ego
level. Jane's death alters the lives of the people who knew her. They are
forever changed, and that change ripples out into their social groups and
spirit families to create increased awareness for all of Us.
Imagine that Jane, her family, everybody who ever met her, everybody on earth,
all beings in the higher realms and every spark of energy in the universe
is like a fragment in a kaleidoscope. When the slightest movement occurs,
the fragments are rearranged. Jane's death, as well as every other action
in the universe, moves the kaleidoscope, and the position of each fragment
is shifted. If you understand that no fragment stands alone, you can understand
how we are all connected. The piece of Us known as "Jane" in this
lifetime is not separate from the rest of Us. Neither is your dog, a stranger
on the other side of the world or the person you perceive as your worst enemy.
Healing and forgiveness, whether it's about grieving the death of a loved
one or recovering from a childhood trauma, begins with this understanding.
In the kaleidoscope of Us, a death is simply another shift that moves us all
forward in our awareness. On earth, on the ego level, of course this causes
great pain. But that pain teaches us the most important spiritual lesson we
will learn in this lifetime... that there is only US. And when you see yourself
as part of the whole, like a finger or an eyelash as part of a body, then
you realize that your departed loved one and even your own self, is an eyelash
on the body of US. When you can think and live as if you are not here alone,
as if you are a part of something bigger than your individual ego identity,
then you can accept these shifts with love and find great peace and purpose
in your life. The alternative is to have an experience on earth of bitterness,
blame, spiritual isolation, confusion and powerlessness. If that is the experience
one chooses, then there is a purpose to that experience as well. There is
never any judgment about these choices.
The ego sees itself as the center of the universe, and works tirelessly to
maintain its illusion of control. When great trauma or loss occurs, there's
a disruption in that system, and the ego fights frantically to survive. Every
time this happens, we have the opportunity to change our perceptions and move
beyond the ego to a higher understanding. We are constantly being given these
opportunities to align more fully with the Divine. When tragedies can be recognized
as opportunities, our experience on earth becomes much less difficult, much
less ruled by fear and panic. The whole reason we come to earth is to remember
The Oneness. And when we need a reminder of this, we'll experience a tragedy
or loss that stops the ego in its tracks and gives us a chance to listen to
the soul and heart instead. This is the whole purpose of incarnation.. to
remember that we're not separate from each other and not separate from God.
We do not toil alone.

UPCOMING EVENTS
Check here for updates,
or contact Terri at 541-549-4004.
Worldwide
Phone Seminar
March 8, 4-5 pm PST
Bend, OR. March 15, 2009
Autumn Equinox Ceremony at
The Old Stone Church
Frankfort,
KY. - March 21, 2009
The Compassionate Friends Regional Conference
(502) 320-6438
Redmond,
OR - April 17, 2009
Hospice of Redmond and Sisters Volunteer Inservice
Salem,
OR. - May 16, 2009
There is No Death workshop
Tea Party Bookshop
(503) 990-6471
Santa
Cruz, CA. May 20, 2009
Book signing at Gateways Books
(831) 429-9600
Santa
Monica , CA - May 24, 2009
There is No Death workshop
Creative Chakra Spa -
(310) 823-9378
Sebastopol,
CA - May 30, 2009
There is No Death workshop
Yumtha Center for Conscious Living & Dying
707-829-6893
DeKalb,
IL - July 16 – July 18
United Leukodystropy Foundation Conference
(800) 728-5483
Sunday, March 8 from 4-5 pm Pacific Standard Time
As
a special offer the first class will be free of charge
(future classes will be $25).
To
register send an email to terri@danieldirect.net
For information, click here.